Saturday, September 25, 2010
Sweat Rings, Sore Feet, and Happiness
I never thought I would say this, but I enjoy subbing.
At the end of the day, my feet are sore.
My shirt has sweat rings under the armpits.
I am hot and sweaty and tired.
I am thirsty from talking more than I am accustomed to.
My mind is on auto-pilot from being pulled at in a dozen directions.
But I am HAPPY. In fact, I feel happier than I have in the past three months when I did not work at all.
Yes, teaching is way out of my comfort zone. I never ever thought I would be doing something like this. But the more I do it, the more confident I feel and the more I learn from my mistakes.
I have figured out something about myself.
I need to be working. I thought that having a few months break from a job would be good for me. I thought I would get a lot of writing done. I thought it would be a nice stress-free interim before I had to find a job again. I thought a lot of things.
Instead, what happened is this: I had an identity crisis. My parents drove me up the wall. I felt like a teenager all over again. I didn’t write as much as I thought I would. I felt depressed almost all the time. I fantasized about moving to Canada. Or Ireland. Or Virginia. I’d live in the mountains like a hermit. Or camp out near the beach. I felt useless. I was frustrated that even if I wanted to move I couldn’t because my back wasn’t fully healed. And so many more things that I’d either bore your socks off or make you cry. Or both at the same time!
And now I am substitute teaching. It is hard. It’s challenging. But it’s also more rewarding than I’ve ever imagined.
I like kids, and I didn’t know that before.